Securing a leading role early on might seem like the ultimate goal, but surprisingly, it could even limit a young performer's growth.

This week’s tale is about Hugh Jackman. Today, we see him as Wolverine or as the charismatic lead in The Greatest Showman - strong, confident, and incredibly accomplished. However, if we rewind his story, things weren't always spotlight-worthy.

Early in his career, Hugh faced numerous setbacks. Audition after audition ended in rejection, with casting directors offering polite yet discouraging feedback: he was "too tall," "too clean-cut," or simply "not the right fit." It was rejection, rejection, and—yep, you guessed it—more rejection. Hugh even recalls one casting director who suggested he might "stick to teaching gym." Ouch.

Yet Hugh's true strength wasn't just talent but his remarkable persistence.

Instead of letting rejection defeat him, Hugh saw each audition as a valuable opportunity to learn, adapt, and grow. He absorbed every piece of feedback, sharpened his skills, and maintained unwavering enthusiasm even when success felt far away.

One pivotal moment came when a director shared an important insight: “It's not just about your ability - it's about fitting into the bigger picture we have for the show. Your job isn't to judge yourself by whether you get a particular role. It's about continuously showing up and improving.”

Inspired by this advice, Hugh intensified his training, brought even more positivity to auditions, and eventually landed breakthrough roles that catapulted him to international fame.

The key lesson from Hugh's journey?

Landing a role isn't simply about talent; it's about fitting pieces together in a complex casting puzzle.

Not every talented performer fits every role - and that's completely normal. Genuine success in the performing arts isn't measured by who shines brightest today but rather by who demonstrates dedication, resilience, and passion consistently over time.

It's understandable for young performers - and parents - to feel excited or disappointed about who gets the leading roles, solos, or moments in the spotlight. These moments are undeniably rewarding and thrilling. But remember, casting decisions represent only a tiny snapshot of a child's true potential and overall growth.

What's truly important is that children never measure their progress solely by casting outcomes.

Naturally, not getting the desired role can hurt - that's entirely valid. Yet, casting involves far more considerations than raw talent alone. Directors carefully weigh compatibility between performers, chemistry within the group, stage presence, and specific physical or vocal qualities needed for a particular show. It's never just about who's the "best," but who's the "best fit" at that moment.

The genuine reward isn't the temporary glory of a starring role - it's the ongoing journey of skill development, personal growth, and continuous learning. Performers who remain dedicated, resilient, and eager to improve are the ones who ultimately achieve lasting success, far surpassing those who chase short-term applause or momentary stardom.

Remember, today's setback often lays the groundwork for tomorrow's standing ovation. Your child's story extends far beyond any single role - just keep turning those exciting pages!

Enjoy the journey - the greatest scenes are yet to come!

P.S. Keep in mind that rejection in the performing arts isn't a judgment of worth; it's valuable feedback in disguise.

Often, auditions that don't go as planned offer the richest learning experiences. Each "no" builds resilience, enhances adaptability, and reveals hidden strengths. Many experienced performers look back gratefully on early rejections, recognising these moments as crucial building blocks for character and long-term success.

Instant wins feel good momentarily, but overcoming challenges shapes lasting excellence.